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The Chore Chart That Finally Works for Us!

The Chore Chart That Finally Works for Us!

The Chore Chart System That Works for Us

I have to admit we started and stopped many chore chart efforts over the past few years. However, I’m happy to say we finally found a system that works for us. We are using a magnet system that lives in our mudroom. This location works well for us since it is right by the door we exit every time we leave the house and also near the laundry room where the shoes, jackets, backpacks, lunch boxes, etc. are stored. So the kids pass these chore charts many, many times during the day. There is no excuse to not see them.

Chore Magnets Are Amazing – How it Works

This system also works because the chores are magnets. There is nothing I need to reprint, reload, wipe off, etc. Paper plans did not work for us. Dry erase was a mess. Magnets? Magnets are the jackpot for us. Each morning the magnets are all on the chore charts above each child’s name. As the chore is completed, the child moves it below his/her name. At the end of the day, all chores should be below the name. It’s that simple.

Extra chores that aren’t assigned each day live on the “Chores” board. For instance, “Laundry” is not an every day item. But if I do Henry’s laundry during the day, I’ll add “Laundry” to his board so he is reminded to put his clean clothes away! And many chores live on the “Chores” board during the summer that are school related.

How I Chose the Chores

Most of the chores are the same for all three kids. Brush Teeth, Make Bed, Put Away Backpack, Do Homework, etc. However, we also picked out some household chores: Trash, Get Mail, Empty Dishwasher, Help in Kitchen, Set Table, Vacuum. These chores are split up and rotate every Sunday. So each of our kids receives 2 household chores to complete for the entire week. It’s definitely cut down on fighting over who has to or who gets to do those items every day.

Does It Really Work?

For us, yes. It’s the system that has lasted the longest in our house. We’ve used it for an entire year. I’d call that a success. The kids have gotten into the habit of checking it before school each morning and during the bedtime routine at night. Sometimes chores aren’t completed when I’d prefer (like getting the mail right before bedtime), but it’s completed. I check it every night after bedtime and move the magnets back in place above their names. And yes, there are evenings I check it and it looks as though not much is completed. My kids are nowhere near perfect. However, they are way better at completing things without a ton of nagging than they were a year ago.

How Do You Make One of Your Own?

This was an investment, but worth it. Basically, it cost more than just printing off a paper chart each week…but those never worked for us and this does!!!

  • The Metal Plaques: I found the metal plaques at Michaels crafts. Some of the stores are phasing them out and replacing them with wood. So the exact ones I used might be harder to find in the stores. They are currently online, but more expensive! Search “ArtMinds™ Tin Parenthesis Plaque”. But any magnetic board that you can hang would work.
  • The Names: I just bought some sticker letters at Michaels as well.
  • Felt Chair Pads: I put these on the back of the plaques so they would not rub the paint off of my walls! The kids are constantly touching the plaques and moving them around which made a few marks on my walls before I added the felt pads. Learn from my mistake.
  • The 1.5″ Magnets: Search for the store “UsefulButtons” on Etsy or on Facebook. This lady is amazing. Her magnets are the cutest. There are tons to choose from…her list goes on and on. You can customize your own set and her pricing varies depending on the number you order. With three kids, we ended up ordering 50 total magnets. She can also personalize a magnet with any image you have. Have a special logo? She can do it! She recently helped me with a special project for a friend and it was great!

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Chair Pockets

Chair Pockets

We have a great group of neighborhood ladies who are connected together on Facebook. Our neighborhood is 30+ years old and everyone is starting to update bathrooms, kitchens, backyards, etc. Last fall a few neighborhood moms that it would cool to host our own “Parade of Homes” and see in-person what each other is doing

Green B.E.A.N. Delivery Update

Green B.E.A.N. Delivery Update

Someone recently asked if we are still using the Green B.E.A.N. Delivery service. Yep! It still works for us. I love having the bin show up weekly full of great produce. And I can still “suspend” a week (skip) on my account if needed (going out of town, etc.). And after all of this time,

Melatonin – Why We Use It

Melatonin – Why We Use It

Disclaimer: I am in no way offering you medical advice/drug supplement advice in this post.  I am just sharing my story in the hopes that it may help someone else.  Before trying any new medications/vitamins/supplements with you and/or your child, you should OF COURSE speak to your own doctors.  Or at least call your mother!

What Every Mom Needs at the Pool

What Every Mom Needs at the Pool

Now that the weather is hot and humid, it’s time to head to the pool more often.  However, being at the pool with little kids requires a lot of work and a lot of gear.  And if you are a mom going alone?  You must pack wisely whether you are going for an hour or

Haute Toddy…You Gotta Get One!

Haute Toddy…You Gotta Get One!

My iPad screen is always a mess.  And I have to say that the Toddy Smart Cloth is fabulous and well worth the cost (thank you co-worker).    You can get them online in an awesome variety of styles.  Me?  I picked mine up in a 3-pack at Target (same price), so I’ve got the one

Puddle Jumpers – This Saturday’s Shout-Out

Puddle Jumpers – This Saturday’s Shout-Out

I’ve read LOTS of things that are against the use of water wings, swimmies, floaties, or whatever you want to call them.  The biggest “against” being that they provide a false sense of security and some swear that the child will never learn to swim without them, etc.  Both of my girls are in swim

UPPAbaby G-Lite – This Saturday’s Shout-Out

UPPAbaby G-Lite – This Saturday’s Shout-Out

So, back in March I bragged about only having ONE stroller…my favorite, the phil&ted.  And I still absolutely love it.  BUT, having three kids now, it was time for a smaller, more light-weight stroller for quick on-the-go moments.  I had three goals with this purchase: 5-point harness, not cumbersome, and not Maclaren priced…oh, and also

Gentle Vapors – This Saturday’s Shout-Out

With all of the sinus gunk in our house this week, these vapor plug-ins are AWESOME.  We use them in Henry’s room and he sleeps so much better.  If you haven’t tried them, you can find them at Target or Walmart.  And it’s even a night-light.  I’m so glad a friend suggested them – THANK

phil&teds Stroller – This Saturday’s Shout-Out

We love our stroller.  In fact, other than the Snap ‘n Go for the infant car seat, we only own ONE stroller.  A phil&teds.  For us it was a really smart buy since we knew we were planning on having multiple kids back-to-back.  It was an expensive purchase, but we justified it by only having one